Your 84% Match with Darius.

Goals & Expectations looks at what each person ultimately wants from a relationship and whether they are moving toward compatible outcomes. This includes relationship intent, commitment expectations, future direction, major priorities, and what each person hopes a successful connection could become.

Two people can have strong chemistry and still be poor matches if they are moving toward fundamentally different destinations. Shared direction gives a connection room to develop without requiring one person to abandon something important later.

You and Darius are both looking for a serious, long-term relationship and expressed similar expectations around commitment and building a life with a partner. Neither of you described dating as primarily casual or exploratory.

Your long-term goals are closely aligned. The differences within this category are primarily about timing rather than destination. You indicated slightly greater urgency around reaching certain relationship milestones.

Structure Fit evaluates whether two people want compatible relationship structures and boundaries. This includes expectations around exclusivity, monogamy or non-monogamy, commitment, autonomy, boundaries, and how the relationship itself is expected to operate.

Relationship structure is difficult to compromise on when two people fundamentally want different things. HAEVN treats structural compatibility as particularly important because attraction cannot resolve incompatible expectations about what the relationship is supposed to be.

You and Darius both indicated that you want a monogamous, exclusive relationship with clear commitment and mutually understood boundaries. Your expectations around relationship structure are highly aligned.

There are no meaningful structural differences in your responses. Minor differences relate primarily to how much independence each person expects to maintain inside the relationship.

Emotional & Communication compatibility looks at how two people communicate, handle disagreement, express emotional needs, give and receive support, and navigate difficult conversations.

Compatibility isn't only about what two people want. It also matters whether they can communicate about those wants when things become difficult. Different communication styles can work together, but large differences may create repeated misunderstanding or emotional friction.

You both value direct, honest communication and prefer addressing problems rather than allowing them to remain unresolved. You also expressed similar expectations around emotional availability and being able to discuss difficult subjects openly.

You prefer resolving disagreements relatively quickly. Darius indicated that he sometimes needs more time and space before returning to a difficult conversation.

Sexual Compatibility evaluates how well your expectations around physical intimacy fit together. This can include the importance of sex within the relationship, desired frequency, initiation, openness, boundaries, communication around intimacy, and other relevant preferences captured by HAEVN.

Sexual compatibility does not require identical preferences. It matters whether two people's needs, expectations, and boundaries can comfortably coexist without either person consistently sacrificing something important.

You both view physical intimacy as an important part of a committed relationship and expressed compatible expectations around exclusivity, openness, and communicating about sexual needs.

Your preferred frequency of intimacy is somewhat higher than Darius indicated. You also expressed a stronger preference for spontaneous initiation, while Darius's responses suggest somewhat more comfort with predictable rhythms.

Practical Fit evaluates whether your day-to-day lives can realistically work together. This includes factors such as location, schedules, lifestyle rhythms, social preferences, personal space, habits, routines, and other practical realities captured by HAEVN.

Two people can want the same relationship and communicate beautifully while still discovering that their everyday lives are difficult to combine. Practical compatibility asks whether there is enough overlap for a relationship to function in real life.

You both live in Austin, value maintaining a life outside the relationship, and expressed similar attitudes toward balancing relationships, friendships, and personal responsibilities.

You prefer spending more of your available weekend time together with a partner. Darius indicated a somewhat greater preference for independent time and maintaining established personal routines. You also appear somewhat more spontaneous about social plans, while Darius tends to prefer advance planning.