About HAEVN
A better way to date
A matching network for modern relationships, built around clarity, alignment, and real intent.
Mission
HAEVN exists to build a better system for connection.
One built around clarity, alignment, and real intent instead of endless browsing and noise.
A system where people define what they want and are introduced to others who want the same thing.
Less performance. More honesty.
Less noise. More signal.
You don't search profiles.
The network continuously finds your 80%+ matches.
That's what changes when connection is built around alignment instead of attention.
The HAEVN System
Most platforms are built around attention.
HAEVN is built around alignment.
The idea behind HAEVN
For the last decade, online dating has mostly meant one thing: swiping. Right. Left. Repeat.
The problem is simple. Swiping rewards attention, not alignment. The loudest profiles rise. The best photos win. People chase matches instead of finding real compatibility.
HAEVN was built to take a different approach.
Instead of asking people to perform for attention, it asks a different question: what kind of connection are you actually looking for?
When you answer that clearly, everything changes.
Founder
"I built HAEVN to replace attention with alignment."
Why I built HAEVN
I met my wife on Match.com nearly twenty years ago, back when meeting online still raised eyebrows.
I was a single dad and a busy professional. Online dating felt like the most efficient way to meet people. It worked. I met the love of my life.
I've always believed in what technology could do for connection. But somewhere along the way, dating apps lost their way.
Swiping replaced substance. Ghosting replaced curiosity. What was meant to bring people together started keeping them apart.
I've always noticed how systems exclude people. By race. By sexuality. By relationship style.
I've never been comfortable accepting "that's just how it is."
So I built HAEVN to offer something better. A space for people to meet with intention and honesty, no matter how they love or what they're looking for.
Rik Foote
Founder
Less noise. More signal.
That's the idea behind HAEVN.