This Isn’t a Swipe App
We Only Match People Who Want the Same Things.
Why dating apps feel exhausting
It's not you. It's the way they're built.
Too Many
Signals
Hundreds of profiles. No idea who actually wants what you want.
Misaligned Conversations
You invest time, then discover you're looking for completely different things.
Emotional Burnout
The cycle of hope, mismatch, and starting over drains you.
Filters are not the same as intent.
On apps, you swipe based on photos.
In real life, you notice someone and take a chance.
Looks matter.
But they don’t tell you if you’re both looking for the same things.
Sometimes you don’t find that out until much later.
Why dating apps feel exhausting
It's not you. It's the way they're built.
Think of HAEVN as Modern Relationships HQ.
Think of HAEVN as your Modern Relationships HQ, a home for real connection, honest exploration, and the tools to make it work.
HAEVN isn’t just another dating app, it’s an ecosystem.
Connection.
Community.
Clarity.
Here is how we make that possible:
CONNECTION
You’re only matched with people who actually want what you want.
COMMUNITY
Meet, explore, and build relationships in real life, with real people.
CLARITY
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When intentions are clear upfront, chemistry has room to grow.
You both know what you want.
You both know you are on the same page.
Everything feels easier from there.
HAEVN is for anyone who wants to meet the right people without the usual hassle.
Modern relationships are personal.
There is no single right way to build them.
Whether you are monogamous, ENM, or exploring what works, HAEVN makes it easier to build relationships that work for you.
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